Episodes

In this episode, Tommy and Lilin address the recent advances of Christian nationalists and their impact on reproductive rights and LGBTQIA+ visibility. They share a personal story about their HOA’s flag code enforcement during Pride Month and how they plan to creatively resist. The discussion includes the failure to codify IVF and birth control protections, and efforts to restrict no-fault divorce, all part of a broader agenda to impose a narrow, regressive view of family. Tommy and Lilin hig...

Welcome to Satanist Next Door. After a brief hiatus, Tommy and Lilin discuss the personal and political impact of restrictive abortion laws, using their daughter's recent pregnancy as a backdrop. They discuss the fear and danger these laws create, not just for those seeking abortions but also for women wanting to carry pregnancies to term. They debunk anti-abortion myths and highlight the importance of bodily autonomy and informed choice. This episode challenges listeners to think critically ...

In this episode, Tommy and Lilin shift their focus from the planned discussion on abortion laws in Texas to address the recent internal conflicts within The Satanic Temple (TST). Joined by Lucien Greaves, they delve into the controversy surrounding TST leadership and ministerial disputes that have erupted over the past week.

Trigger Warning - This subject covers topics that could be triggering including abuse and SA. In this episode, Tommy and Lilin tackle a provocative question from social media: Would you rather encounter a bear or a man in the woods? This seemingly simple query opens up vital discussions about safety, perceptions, and the real dangers women face from men. The hosts discuss why many women prefer the bear, emphasizing the threats posed by men, rooted in widespread societal experiences. They cha...

In this episode, Tommy and Lilin are fired up over yet another chaplain program pushed through legislation in Florida. They discuss Governor DeSantis’s controversial statements about the roles of chaplains in schools, specifically his exclusion of Satanists while pushing for Christian presence. Tommy and Lilin rip into the hypocrisy of claiming religious freedom while systematically denying it to Satanists. They lay out how, despite legal recognitions, including by the IRS, that define Satani...

Join Tommy and Lilin in this episode where they discuss violence targeting the Satanic community. With unflinching honesty, they discuss the alarming rise in hate crimes and domestic terrorism against their religion, reflecting on a series of unsettling events from pipe bombs to arson at their headquarters. Amidst these threats, they uphold the principles of peace and equality, challenging the hypocrisy of attackers hiding behind religious justifications. Tune in as they affirm the rights ...

In this episode, Tommy and Lilin discuss "Open Office", a monthly virtual gathering where the Houston Congregation of The Satanic Temple invites both Satanists and the Satan-curious to explore various aspects of Satanism. Throughout the episode, Tommy and Lilin reflect on how the Satanic Invocation, written by Lucien Greaves and used during city council meetings as well as religious services, touches on themes of personal sovereignty, arbitrary authority, and personal growth. They share fe...

In this episode of Satanists Nextdoor, Tommy and Lilin discuss their perspective on rituals within Satanism, exploring how rituals can be tailored to individual needs, fostering a sense of empowerment and self-discovery, serving as a powerful tool for self-expression, healing, and transformation, allowing individuals to reclaim their autonomy and celebrate their journey away from imposed beliefs. They explore the concept of rituals as psychodrama rather than invoking supernatural forces, whil...

In this episode of Satanists Nextdoor, Tommy and Lilin respond to a listener's inquiry from Shannon about the Satanist perspective on gun ownership. Shannon's email ignites a frank discussion on the fine line between supporting responsible gun ownership and upholding the personal right to steer clear of firearms. This episode delves into the complexities of gun rights within the Satanist community and beyond, without evasion. Operating from their distinctive standpoint in Texas—a state kno...

In this episode, Tommy and Lilin sit down with Jessy Aumiou'xx, the East Coast's very own Satanic baker and owner of Sugar Anarchy, to chew over the big question: to use a satanym or not? It's all about the decision of whether or not to use a pseudonym in the Satanic community. Jessy shares their life as a public Satanist running their bakery and how that intertwines with their personal beliefs and business operations. Jessy is all about being out there, using their real name, and what that m...

In this episode, Tommy and Lilin recount a packed week of activism, community engagement, and satanic representation, discussing their latest exploits and the important role of grassroots involvement. They talk about challenging the Texas chaplaincy program at a school board meeting and mixing it up with secular and pagan circles. This episode explores satanic advocacy, spotlighting the need to push for secularism and inclusivity in public arenas. From taking the floor at school board meetings to mingling in community dialogues, or just being a clued-in and proactive part of your community, every bit of effort is essential in the struggle for a fairer and secular society.

In this episode of "Satanists Nextdoor," Tommy and Lilin, alongside Lucien Greaves, Tanooki Liz Sailhatan (Nooki), Murphy Fawkes, and Lilith Starr, from The Satanic Temple, discuss the ridiculous yet dangerous tide of anti-Satanic legislation that's been cropping up like a bad rash across the country. This lineup of Satanic heavyweights doesn't just talk the talk; they've been walking the walk, fighting on the front lines against the kind of laws that sound like they were cooked up during a sata...

In a poignant episode of "Satanists Nextdoor," hosts Tommy and Lilin pay tribute to the life of Nex Benedict, a beloved 16-year-old non-binary individual whose tragic loss serves as a stark reminder of the systemic challenges confronting the LGBTQIA+ community. Nex's story is presented not as a statistic but as a celebration of a vibrant life filled with passion, creativity, and a zest for living authentically. Tommy and Lilin delve into Nex's life, interests, and legacy, emphasizing the need to remember Nex as more than a victim but as a cherished member of their community. The hosts confront the disturbing pattern of violence and discrimination faced by LGBTQIA+ individuals, acknowledging that Nex's story is not isolated but indicative of broader issues. The episode delves into the alarming rise of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, drawing insights from the Human Rights Campaign's 2023 LGBTQ+ Youth Report. Tommy and Lilin address the importance of family support and acceptance for LGBT…

In Episode 35 of "Satanists Nextdoor," hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin engage in a profound exploration of the enduring legacy of Alexei Navalny, a formidable figure in the ongoing struggle against corruption and authoritarianism in Russia. Navalny's unwavering commitment to justice, personal freedom, and an unwavering pursuit of truth has transcended national boundaries, transforming him into a symbol of resistance against tyranny. Through the lens of Satanism, the hosts dissect how Navalny's activism aligns seamlessly with the core principles of compassion, justice, and a steadfast defiance against oppression—principles that closely mirror the guiding tenets of Satanism. The episode serves as both a tribute to Navalny's indomitable spirit and a reflection on the profound impact of his words: "We are incredibly strong. We need to utilize this power to not give up, and to remember we are a huge power that is being oppressed. We don't realize how strong we actually are." This p…

In Episode 34 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin embark on a profound exploration of the contentious landscape surrounding religious freedom, with a keen focus on recent legislative endeavors aimed at marginalizing Satanism, particularly Arizona's SB1279 and Iowa's SF2210. This episode transcends a mere legal dissection, evolving into a candid conversation that delves deep into the societal struggle with pluralism and the foundational principles of the United States. The hosts engage in a thoughtful analysis of how these legislative moves not only misuse the Establishment Clause but also lead to the criminalization of Satanic symbols and practices. Importantly, they emphasize the far-reaching consequences of such bills, stretching beyond the confines of the Satanic community to impact all minority religions and the essence of American secularism. Listeners are invited to listen to an insightful dialogue that navigates the intricate interplay of religious…

In Episode 33 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin dive deep into the ongoing struggle for the recognition and respect of Satanism within the broader conversation on religious rights. They bring attention to recent legislative actions in Arizona, specifically Senate Bill 1279, which underscores the continued challenges faced by Satanists in securing their rights and liberties. The hosts also discuss a recent incident in Iowa where vandalism against a Satanic display was officially labeled a hate crime. This event serves as a stark reminder of the real threats to religious expression and highlights the need for robust legal protections that encompass all faiths, including Satanism. However, this episode is not just about Satanism; it serves as a broader commentary on how the resistance against Satanism acts as a litmus test for religious freedom across the spectrum. By examining the struggles faced by Satanists, Lilin and Tommy invite listeners to reflect o…

In Episode 32 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin tackle the turbulent Texas border crisis and the broader political landscape through the unique lens of Satanism. In a thought-provoking and candid discussion, they challenge the prevailing narratives surrounding the border situation, advocating for a world where compassion and reason prevail over fear and manipulation. The hosts dive into the political gamesmanship surrounding the Texas border, the reactionary anger within the GOP base, and the concerning trend of weaponizing religion, through Christian Nationalism. Unapologetically, Tommy and Lilin call out the absurdities and dangers of the current situation, including the manipulation of immigration narratives and the human toll at the border. This episode serves as a call to action, encouraging listeners to see beyond the surface and grasp the deeper currents shaping our society. It emphasizes that the issues in Texas are not isolated but indicative o…

In Episode 31 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin embark on a candid exploration of mental health, specifically delving into the complexities of depression within the Satanic community. The episode sheds light on the unique challenges faced by individuals dealing with depression, challenging stigmas surrounding mental health, and emphasizing the significance of open and supportive conversations. With a focus on the distinctive pressures faced by those in leadership roles within the Satanic community, the hosts share personal experiences and societal observations. They highlight how the tenets of Satanism can serve as practical tools for understanding and actively addressing depression. This episode navigates tough and sensitive topics with a grounded and honest approach, providing listeners with valuable insights into the intersection of mental health and Satanic philosophy. It serves as a reminder of the importance of fostering a supportive community and…

In Episode 30 of Satanists Nextdoor, the hosts, Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin, welcome a special guest, Tim Baxter from 'Satan's Therapist,' for a captivating exploration into the realm of cognitive dissonance. This insightful episode delves deep into the intricacies of cognitive dissonance, a psychological phenomenon marked by the mental discomfort individuals experience when holding conflicting beliefs or encountering information that challenges their existing views. The hosts, along with Tim, illuminate the importance of understanding cognitive dissonance, particularly within the context of Satanism, where the essence of questioning established norms and challenging ingrained beliefs is a prevalent theme. Tim shares invaluable insights into how recognizing cognitive dissonance can lead to heightened self-awareness, fostering personal growth, and facilitating improved decision-making. This episode goes beyond mere exploration, delving into the role of cognitive dissonance in …

In Episode 29 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin embark on a comprehensive exploration of the challenges and significant developments awaiting the Satanic community in the pivotal year of 2024. The episode unfolds with a thoughtful reflection on the Executive Ministry's decision to postpone SatanCon to 2025, sparking a robust response from the community characterized by a harmonious blend of unity and a resolute commitment to fortify The Satanic Temple's (TST) mission. Tommy and Lilin courageously address pressing issues, delving into the realms of LGBTQIA+ rights, reproductive rights, and the looming threat of theocratic policies. They eloquently advocate for proactive engagement and stress the importance of collective action to safeguard personal freedoms and maintain the fundamental separation of church and state. This episode transcends the boundaries of a mere discussion; it transforms into a powerful rallying cry. Tommy and Lilin passionately call …

In Episode 28 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin lead a compelling and introspective discussion with special guests Nooki, Murphy Fawkes, Kaelea, and Lilith Starr, offering a profound exploration of unity and resilience within The Satanic Temple community. Inspired by a powerful collection of letters following the David Silverman photo debacle and other internal challenges, the episode provides valuable insights into the dynamics of the Satanic Temple community. The guests share their perspectives on the significance of maintaining unity, cautioning against purity spirals that can potentially divide the community. They emphasize the need for constructive conflict resolution, highlighting the delicate balance between personal agendas and the overarching mission of defending pluralism and religious liberty. This episode serves as a call for introspection and solidarity within The Satanic Temple, urging members to rise above internal conflicts and refocus o…

In Episode 27 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin engage in a thought-provoking conversation about Satanic parenting, providing valuable insights into how Satanic principles can positively shape the parenting experience. The hosts explore how these foundational principles not only encourage critical thinking and compassion but also play a vital role in teaching children about establishing safe boundaries, appreciating themselves, and cultivating healthy self-respect. Whether you're a member of the Satanic community, a parent seeking alternative perspectives, or simply curious about different approaches to raising children, this episode is a must-listen. The hosts foster an open and honest conversation that challenges conventional parenting norms, addressing misconceptions about Satanic parenting. They emphasize the importance of nurturing well-rounded, empathetic, and thoughtful children through the application of Satanic principles. Join Lilin and Tommy …

In Episode 26 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin delve into the escalating challenges faced by The Satanic Temple across the United States, centering their discussion on the recent vandalism of the Iowa congregation's Baphomet display at the Iowa State Capitol. The episode navigates the complexities of religious freedom guaranteed by the First Amendment, emphasizing the extension of this fundamental right to all faiths, even those often marginalized or misunderstood. Focusing on the recent incident involving Michael Cassidy, who destroyed The Satanic Temple's display, the hosts examine the subsequent fundraising efforts and the broader debate about the intersection of religious beliefs and legal accountability. The episode sheds light on the troubling endorsement of Cassidy's actions by prominent political figures like Ron DeSantis, sparking concerns about the potential for theocratic authoritarianism in governance. The hosts also explore similar inciden…

In Episode 25 of Satanists Nextdoor, hosts Lilin T. Lavin and Tommy Lavin explore the heartbreaking case of Kate Cox, a Texas woman facing stringent abortion laws due to her pregnancy with a fetus diagnosed with Edwards Syndrome (Trisomy 18). The hosts navigate this deeply personal narrative, shedding light on the broader conversation about bodily autonomy and the concerning implications of its erosion. The episode delves into Kate Cox's story, examining the challenges she encounters within the framework of Texas' abortion laws and illustrating how the erosion of personal liberties can impact individuals. By intertwining Kate Cox's experiences with The Satanic Temple's principles, Lilin and Tommy emphasize the organization's commitment to bodily autonomy and the belief in the inviolability of one's own body. Drawing parallels between historical events and the present, the hosts underscore the potential resurgence of past challenges if individual rights, as upheld by The Satanic …